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Adventures in personal growth

October: Simply Being Happy

10/31/2018

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Entering the kingdom of God means feeling, as if we were floating in the womb of the universe, that we are being taken care of, always, at every moment. ~ Stephen Mitchell
 
I’ve done very little writing lately. Something inside is metamorphosing and many of the things that once seemed very important to me (growing my email list! Selling books! Attracting coaching clients!) now seem nice but not really worth a lot of time and energy.
 
I’m enjoying life.

​Nothing amazing has happened; I’m simply appreciating the day in and day out routine of getting up, having my coffee, reading, watching my daughter spread her wings, meeting a friend, watching a movie, going to work in the restaurant. Not having any ambition for things to be different. Not waiting for a relationship or some form of tangible “success” to make me feel worthwhile.
 
I honestly used to scoff at the idea that the purpose of life could be as simple as being happy. I thought the real purpose of life was to learn and grow, but now I think that is just the means to the end – and the end is being happy. We learn and grow, not to be better people, or to earn some outer reward (in this life or the next), or to prove ourselves worthy, but simply to be happy. Because until we learn to overcome the ego and its ways, we’ll never truly be happy.
 
The ego, or mind, is the enemy of true happiness. Ego keeps us focusing on what’s “out there.” How many friends do we have? How much money do we make? How good do we look, and how successful are we, compared to every single person we meet? Depending on the answers to those questions, we may feel “happy” for a while, but it doesn’t last. The ego also tells us that we have to make it all work: we have to make the right decisions, do the right things, be the right kind of people in order to earn our happiness at long last.
 
All the personal growth work I’ve done over the past decades has led finally to this realization: none of that outward stuff matters. None of it.  This is why I now find myself more or less ambitionless. I don’t need anything to be different. Each moment, even the ones in which things seem to be going wrong, is perfect, because in every moment I know that I am loved and taken care of, “floating in the womb of the universe.” This is the message that the soul quietly and constantly reiterates underneath the blaring of the ego’s alarms.
 
I will keep on writing when I have something to say, and I hope that my readers will understand if my posts are a little less regular! I’m always very happy to hear from you, whether with your troubles or your joys. Through both, I hope you choose to believe that you are loved and taken care of in every moment.
 
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tiffanyy
11/1/2018 03:14:22 am

I love this!! I have never been "satisfied" with my body. I am 52 and being working at losing weight since I was 13. recently I have noticed that I don't feel so driven to try and lose that "last 5lbs." That I am 52, in good shape and maybe my body is just how it is.. it has given birth to twins, it has never let me down although I constantly let it down by berating and dieting.. it enables me to do the things I need and want to do! so lately I have been softening into acceptance.. and being happy with it as it is.. feeling the pressure lift off my shoulders to do the latest diet with everyone.. instead.. accept and enjoy.. what a difference!

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Leah
11/1/2018 03:29:26 am

Soooooo great to hear from you. As usual, you told me just what I needed to hear. I too, it seems, am endlessly struggling to get to that simplest of all places... right where I already am. So glad you are feeling happy.

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Gay price
11/1/2018 03:57:52 am

Ahh, it has taken me longer than you, but happiness should be everyone's goal. It is a wonderful place to be, and I am very satisfied with my life just now. On the days when I feel a tad guilty for my lack of ambition, I will reread your essay!

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Kelly
11/1/2018 07:05:04 am

Very well said. When I read things like this I feel encouraged because I feel the same way. I feel blessed because I share this knowledge, that hapiness is living in the moment and knowing we are perfect just as we are. There is a reason for each and every gift we have and a reason for the way we are.

When I was younger, I used to think, wow, what's wrong with me? I need to be stronger. I need to be much more "thick skinned ". After all, isn't that the way we are supposed to be? I'm certain that the rest of the world is much stronger and isn't so "sensitive". Now I realize this is a God-given trait. I was CREATED to be sensitive, to be intuitive to other souls around me so I can help them. I feel like we all have this connection and ability if we just listen and act on it.

If one of my family members pops in my mind at any given moment, I feel like it's God prompting me to reach out to them. I usually just say something quick or encouraging. And almost inevitably they say, "Wow, perfect timing. I needed that." :)

Don't make an effort to do something grandeur, just be yourself because that's all it's needed. You're perfect Just As You Are. Try to look at yourself the way God does. He created you. He loves you. Why wouldn't you love something he created? You're important to someone. You're important because the gifts you were given are needed by someone. We all have our gifts and abilities. And the combined gifts make us human, human kind. At the end of the day our humanity is all that matters.

Let me say that again, you matter. You are loved because you are here on Earth. These are only our Earth suits. It's our souls are what matters the most.

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